A daily check-in for a parent who lives alone
Once a day, at a time you choose, they get a short call from an AI voice, or a text. They answer, and that's it. If a check-in is still unanswered an hour after its time (the default), we text the contacts who agreed to get alerts. You're one of them automatically, unless you switch your own alerts off.
(iPhone)
They don't need the app or a smartphone ยท Check-ins start only after they reply YES ยท Not an emergency service
When a parent lives alone, one question never quite goes away: if something happened, how long before anyone knew?
You could call every day. Some days you will. Check In Together gives them one easy thing to do each day, a quick hello, and it texts you when that hello doesn't come.
How it works
Set it up on your iPhone.
Add their name and mobile number, choose a call or a text, and pick a time. You're added as their contact automatically. Add others if you like; each one is asked first.
They say yes.
We text them first. The text says the check-ins are automated and use AI, and that you can read what they say and an AI summary. Check-ins start only after they reply YES, and they can reply STOP anytime.
Once a day, they check in.
A short call from an AI voice, or a text. If it goes unanswered, we try again a few more times that day. If it's still unanswered an hour after its time, we text the contacts who agreed to get alerts.
What it's like for them
- A short call or a text, once a day. A call is a short conversation with an AI voice. A text check-in starts with a hello by name and a short question, and they reply.
- No app, no smartphone. Just a mobile number that can get texts. A landline can't get the YES text, so check-ins on a landline never start.
- The same number every day. Our texts and calls come from our toll-free number, +1 (888) 691-7566. Save it as "Check In Together" so check-ins always reach you. Outside the US and Canada, your phone may show a different sender.
What you see
- A short summary of each completed check-in, and a recap of what they've shared over time. Tap a recent check-in to read the conversation.
- Where each contact stands. If none has agreed and has alerts on, the app warns you when you open it.
- More than one person, from one account.
- Pause and resume from the home screen.
AI-written summaries and recaps can miss things or get them wrong, and aren't medical advice.
Live alone yourself?
Check in for yourself in the app: answer a few questions once a day at a time you choose. You don't need to give your own number, but setup needs one emergency contact's name and number, and they're asked first. If your check-in doesn't reach us for any reason, including checking in with no signal, it counts as missed, and your contacts who agreed are alerted unless you reopen the app before the wait ends.
Before you rely on it
It's a daily check-in, not an emergency service. Please know these limits:
- It doesn't detect falls or emergencies. On calls and texts, a reply counts as checking in, even one like "I fell" (a photo or voice note on its own doesn't), and so can a call picked up by voicemail.
- Contacts are texted when a check-in is missed and the wait has passed, or at once if they reply HELP during a text check-in. Nothing is sent when something happens between check-ins. With one check-in a day and the default 1-hour wait, about 25 hours can pass.
- Each missed check-in sends at most one alert text to each contact who agreed. We never call your contacts or emergency services, and no one at Check In Together responds to alerts or sends help.
- A text can be delayed or fail to arrive, and a delivered one may not be seen right away.
- Unanswered calls and texts are retried at most 5 more times that day (6 attempts in all), and not at all if no contact who agreed has alerts on.
- After three missed days in a row, call and text check-ins pause: contacts who agreed get one notice, and no one is checked on or alerted until you open the app.
- US phone numbers, English only, iPhone only.
Questions
Does my parent need a smartphone or the app?
No. They need a mobile number that can get texts. They reply YES to one text to start, then answer a call or reply to texts.
Will they know it's automated?
Yes. Before anything starts, our text tells them the check-ins are automated and use AI, and that you can read what they say and an AI summary. They reply YES to start or STOP to decline.
What if they don't answer?
We try again a few more times that day: at most 5 more attempts, 6 in all, and none if no contact who agreed has alerts on. Retries can continue even after contacts have been texted.
When exactly are contacts texted?
With the default settings, if a check-in is still unanswered an hour after its time, we text your contacts who have agreed to get alerts and have alerts on. With one check-in a day and the default 1-hour wait, about 25 hours can pass; with the longest wait, about 44 hours on calls and texts and about 8 days in the app.
What does the alert say?
"ALERT from Check In Together: {name} has not checked in for about {time}. Please check on them." It doesn't include their answers or a summary.
What if I text that number?
Texts to this number outside a check-in aren't read by a person and don't reach your family. In an emergency, call 911.
What about privacy?
Only the contact you pick (name and number) is sent to us; your contact list is never uploaded. We don't sell your data, don't use advertising identifiers, and don't track you across other apps or websites. Every completed check-in is summarized by AI: OpenAI for voice calls, Anthropic for summaries.
How do I stop it?
They can reply STOP to any of our texts. You can pause from the app: pausing stops check-ins and missed-check-in alerts until you resume. Or delete your account in Settings โ Delete Account, which stops all check-ins and alerts and permanently deletes your schedule, history, summaries, recap and contacts from our database. It can't be undone.
What if I get a new phone?
Reinstalling or a new phone starts a new account. The old one can't be recovered, and its contacts may get an alert. Delete your account in Settings before you switch.
Check In Together
Emergency safety check-ins and alerts for people living alone
Check In Together is an emergency check-in service that notifies designated emergency contacts via SMS. Users complete regular safety check-ins, and missed check-ins trigger automatic alerts to their chosen emergency contacts.
๐ฑ Who Sends Messages
Messages are sent by Check In Together LLC, which operates Check In Together, a check-in service based in the United States.
Our texts and calls come from our toll-free number, +1 (888) 691-7566. Save it as "Check In Together" so check-ins always reach you. Outside the US and Canada, your phone may show a different sender.
โ๏ธ Non-Marketing Service
No promotional messages are sent. Emergency contacts only receive:
- Opt-in requests (at most twice per request)
- Alerts and the related notices listed under SMS Consent
- No advertisements, promotions, or marketing materials
How It Works
Check In Together requires explicit consent before sending any emergency alerts.
User Adds Emergency Contact
A Check In Together user (the person living alone) adds an emergency contact's phone number in the app. The contact is typically a family member, friend, or neighbor.
Opt-In SMS Sent with Keyword
The emergency contact receives an SMS text message asking them to opt in by replying with the keyword "YES". The message says who listed them, what they will be told, and how to decline.
Contact Replies "YES" to Consent
The emergency contact must explicitly reply with the keyword "YES" to agree to receive SMS text messages. No text messages will be sent until this SMS consent is confirmed. We store the consent record: the phone number, the time they replied YES, and that they consented by text reply.
Emergency Alert SMS (Rare)
Only after SMS consent is confirmed, the contact may receive an alert text message if the person misses a scheduled check-in and has not checked in within the waiting time chosen in the app.
๐ Message Frequency
Extremely Rare - Emergency contacts only receive messages when a person misses a check-in, or in the other cases listed under SMS Consent below. In normal operation, contacts may receive zero messages per month. This is not a frequent notification service.
โ ๏ธ If You Need Help
On calls and texts, any reply currently counts as checking in, and what you say is not passed on to your contacts. If you need help, call 911 or your contacts directly.
SMS Consent & Opt-In Process
Opt-in type: VIA_TEXT โ Emergency contacts, and people who receive check-ins set up by someone else, opt in by replying with the keyword "YES" via SMS.
SMS Policy
๐ STOP - Opt-Out
Reply STOP to opt out at any time.
Anyone can opt out immediately by replying STOP to any message. When you opt out:
- You will no longer receive any texts from Check In Together at that number: no alerts about anyone who listed you, and no check-ins if you receive them
- Your opt-out is processed immediately (within seconds)
- Our SMS provider (Twilio) sends one automatic confirmation that you have been unsubscribed; nothing is sent after that
We honor all STOP requests immediately and automatically. No human intervention is required.
โ HELP - Get Help
Reply HELP for assistance.
When you reply HELP, you'll receive the reply below. It is the same for everyone, including people who receive check-ins:
"Check In Together: automated check-ins and alerts to emergency contacts. We can't send help: in an emergency, call 911 or your local emergency number. Email support@checkintogetherapp.com. Msg freq varies. Msg&data rates may apply. Reply STOP to opt out."
A reply of HELP (or INFO or SUPPORT) always gets this reply, also while a check-in text is open; it is not taken as a check-in answer. You can also email support@checkintogetherapp.com.
๐ฌ What if I text that number?
Texts to this number outside a check-in aren't read by a person and don't reach your family. In an emergency, call 911.
๐ง Support Contact
For questions, concerns, or assistance:
- Email: support@checkintogetherapp.com
- Response time: Within 24-48 hours
- Available for: Opt-in questions, technical issues, privacy inquiries
๐ต Message & Data Rates
Standard SMS messaging and data rates may apply based on your mobile carrier's plan. Check In Together does not charge for messages, but your carrier may charge for incoming SMS messages depending on your plan.
๐ฑ Supported Carriers
Check In Together works with all major US carriers including AT&T, T-Mobile, Verizon, and most MVNOs. Messages are sent via Twilio's enterprise SMS infrastructure.
Privacy Policy
Last Updated: October 2, 2026
1. Information We Collect
Check In Together collects the following information:
Accounts:
There is no username, password or email sign-up. The app signs in with an anonymous account created on your phone, and everything below is linked to that account.
From Primary Users (People Being Checked In On):
One account can be set up for the account holder, or by a caregiver for one or more people they look after. For each person checked in on we collect:
- Name
- Phone number (optional)
- Check-in preferences (method, time, and how long to wait before alerting contacts)
- When check-ins were completed or missed. In-app answers are not stored in our database, but they are sent to Anthropic to be summarized, and what they say is added to the recap we store (below).
From Emergency Contacts:
- Phone number
- Name and relationship (provided by primary user)
- Opt-in consent timestamp and method, and the time of any opt-out
- Whether our texts to them were accepted for delivery, and any error code
Consent texts to emergency contacts and to people being checked in on are sent by our servers, at most twice per request, and only for people the account holder added and asked us to contact. People added from app version 1.3 or earlier were sent the request once, by the app, when they were added; from version 1.4 the account holder can ask us to send it again (at most twice) (emergency contacts get the version 1.3 wording shown under SMS Consent). If a contact added in an earlier app version was saved only on the phone, updating the app saves them with us and sends the consent request (at most twice).
Automatically Collected:
- Your phone's time zone, so check-ins happen at your local time
- App usage data (check-in completion, settings changes)
- The status of our texts and calls (for example, whether a call was answered, went to voicemail, or failed)
- Standard request logs kept by our hosting providers, which can include IP addresses
Device Permissions:
- Contacts: Used only when you tap "Import from Contacts" to select an emergency contact, or "Save our number to your contacts" to add Check In Together's number to your phone. We only store the name and phone number of contacts you explicitly choose. Your contact list is not uploaded or scanned.
- Notifications: Used to remind you when a check-in is due.
Check-In Calls, Texts and Answers:
- Voice check-ins are placed as a regular phone call to the number you provide. The call audio is carried by Twilio and relayed through our voice server (hosted by Fly.io) to OpenAI in real time, so the AI companion can converse naturally and the call can be transcribed.
- Text check-ins are a back-and-forth series of SMS messages: we text a few check-in questions and read the replies. The message content is processed to run the check-in.
- A text transcript of the voice call or text conversation is stored on our servers. The account holder who set up the check-ins can read the full conversation, the AI summary, anything it flagged to follow up on, and the running recap in the app. The transcript is processed by our AI provider (Anthropic) to generate the summary. Your responses can include wellbeing or health-related details. You can request deletion of your transcripts at any time by emailing support@checkintogetherapp.com.
- In-app check-ins: your answers are sent to our AI provider (Anthropic) to write a short summary shown in the app, to update the recap described below, and to decide whether your opted-in emergency contacts should get a short heads-up text describing what was noticed (for example, that you mentioned a fall).
- We also keep a short, evolving written recap of how the person has been over time โ their usual routine, things they've mentioned, and anything worth following up on โ built from their check-in responses and updated after each check-in. We retain your check-in responses to maintain this recap, and it is included when our AI provider (Anthropic) summarizes your next check-in, so the recap reflects how you've been over time rather than a single day. It is kept while your account is active and can be deleted on request.
- The check-in companion is not a doctor and does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or health monitoring. Check-ins are intended as friendly conversations, not assessments.
2. SMS Text Message Consent
Check In Together sends SMS text messages to emergency contacts, and check-in texts to people who choose text check-ins. We obtain explicit consent via text message (VIA_TEXT) before sending any messages to an emergency contact, or to a person someone else set up check-ins for:
- Opt-in method: They receive an SMS with an opt-in request and must reply with the keyword "YES" to consent to receiving SMS text messages
- Messages sent: To emergency contacts, the messages listed under SMS Consent above (alerts when a check-in is missed, and a one-time opt-in confirmation among them); to people receiving check-ins, their check-in texts or calls and a notice if their check-ins are paused after three days without a response; the account holder is also texted at their own phone number, if one is saved in the app, when check-ins pause
- Message frequency: For emergency contacts, rare โ only when a check-in is missed or another listed event happens, so there may be none in a month; for people receiving check-ins, their scheduled check-ins (typically once a day), with up to 6 texts or calls in all for each scheduled check-in if it goes unanswered (just one if the person has no emergency contact who can receive alerts), plus any check-in the account holder starts from the app
- Opt-out: Reply STOP at any time to stop receiving SMS text messages
- Help: Reply HELP for assistance or email support@checkintogetherapp.com
- Message and data rates may apply
We do not sell, rent, or share your phone number with third parties for marketing or promotional purposes. Your phone number is used only for the messages and calls described on this page, and is shared only with the service providers that deliver them (see section 4).
3. How We Use Your Information
- Check-in tracking: Track check-in completion and trigger alerts to your designated contacts when you miss check-ins
- Emergency notifications: Send SMS alerts to opted-in emergency contacts
- Concern alerts: Notify your emergency contacts if what the person says in a text or call check-in suggests they may need help (for example "I fell"). That alert does not quote what was said or say what the concern was. When a missed check-in is later answered, contacts are told either "all clear" (only if nothing in the replies raised a concern) or that the person has replied but we cannot confirm all is well. Our automated check-in number cannot send help: a reply that mentions an emergency is answered with a reminder to call the local emergency number.
- Consent management: Store and honor opt-in/opt-out preferences
- Check-in summaries: Summarize check-ins for the account holder, keep the running recap, and (for in-app check-ins) decide whether to send contacts a heads-up, using the AI providers in section 4
- Reliability: Check whether check-ins, texts, calls and alerts went out as they should, to find and fix problems
- Support: Respond to user inquiries and technical issues
4. Who We Share Your Information With
We do not sell, rent, or share your personal information with third parties for marketing purposes.
Service Providers:
- Supabase - Backend hosting (United States): stores your account data, emergency contacts and their opt-in status, your check-in schedule for server-side reminders and alerts, voice and text check-in transcripts and summaries, and the running recap. Provides authentication (the anonymous accounts described above) and serverless functions.
- Twilio - SMS and voice call delivery (data processor only). For voice check-ins, Twilio carries the audio of the call between you and our AI companion and detects whether a person or voicemail answered; Twilio does not record or retain call audio for us. Twilio keeps its own records of the texts and calls it delivers.
- Fly.io - Hosts our voice server, which relays call audio between Twilio and OpenAI during voice check-ins and saves the transcript to Supabase. It does not store call audio.
- OpenAI - Real-time voice conversation engine for users who choose voice check-ins. Audio of the call is sent to OpenAI to drive the conversation and to transcribe it. OpenAI does not train on this data per their API terms.
- Anthropic (Claude) - After each check-in, the transcript (voice or text check-ins) or your answers (in-app check-ins) are sent to Anthropic to generate a short plain-language summary, to maintain the running recap described above (which can include wellbeing/health-related details shared over prior check-ins), and, for in-app check-ins, to decide whether to send your emergency contacts a heads-up. It also reads each reply as it arrives, together with the conversation so far and a short profile, to decide whether to text the emergency contacts; the person's first name is removed first, other names they or their profile mention may not be. So a reply can be sent to Anthropic several times (with each later reply of the same check-in). Anthropic does not train on this data per their API terms.
When an alert is sent, or a reply could not be read automatically in time, we may review that conversation to check the alert was right and to decide whether to follow up (for example by contacting the account holder). This review is done with AI tools from Anthropic, so the conversation is also sent to Anthropic for it.
Account Holder and Emergency Contacts:
- The account holder who set up your check-ins - can read the full conversation, the AI summary, anything flagged to follow up on, and the running recap (as described in section 1)
- Your opted-in emergency contacts - alerts, and for in-app check-ins, a heads-up that may describe what you said
Legal Requirements:
We may disclose information if required by law, court order, or to protect the safety of users in genuine emergency situations.
With Consent:
Emergency alerts are only sent to contacts you explicitly designate and who have opted in.
5. Data Retention
- Active users: Data retained while account is active
- Check-in transcripts, summaries and the recap: Kept while the account is active, and deleted when the account is deleted or on request. In-app check-in history is stored on your phone.
- Consent records: Kept with the contact's (or checked-in person's) entry in the account, and deleted when the account holder removes them or deletes the account. Our SMS provider separately keeps blocking texts to any number that replied STOP.
- After account deletion: Deleting your account in the app (Settings → Delete Account) immediately and permanently removes your check-in schedule, check-in history and summaries, the running recap, your emergency contacts, and the account itself โ and stops all check-in texts and calls and all alerts to your emergency contacts. Deletion requests made by email are completed within 30 days. Deletion does not reach records held outside our database: our providers' own records, such as Twilio's logs of texts and calls already sent, and short-lived server logs are kept under those providers' retention periods.
- Uninstalling the app: Does not delete your account or its data, and does not stop check-in calls and texts or alerts to your emergency contacts. Delete your account in the app first (Settings → Delete Account), or email us.
6. Your Rights
You have the right to:
- Access: Request a copy of your personal data
- Correct: Update inaccurate information in the app settings
- Delete: Permanently delete your account and all your data at any time, right in the app under Settings → Delete Account (or request deletion by email)
- Opt-out: Unsubscribe from SMS alerts at any time (reply STOP)
- Data portability: Request your data in a machine-readable format
To exercise these rights, email: support@checkintogetherapp.com
7. Data Security
We implement industry-standard security measures:
- Encrypted data transmission (HTTPS/TLS)
- Secure cloud storage with encryption at rest
- Access to our database is limited to Check In Together LLC
8. International Users
Check In Together operates from the United States. If you use our service from outside the US, your data will be transferred to and processed in the United States. By using our service, you consent to this transfer.
9. Children
Check In Together is not directed to children under 13 and we do not knowingly collect their information.
10. Changes to This Policy
We may update this Privacy Policy. Changes will be posted on this page with an updated "Last Updated" date. Continued use of the service after changes constitutes acceptance.
11. Contact Us
For privacy questions or concerns:
Email: support@checkintogetherapp.com
Service Operator: Check In Together LLC
Location: United States
Terms of Service
Last Updated: September 25, 2026
1. Acceptance of Terms
By using Check In Together, you agree to these Terms of Service. If you don't agree, please don't use the service.
2. Service Description
Check In Together is a check-in service that:
- Reminds users to complete regular safety check-ins
- Tracks missed check-ins
- Sends emergency alerts to designated contacts when check-ins are missed
3. Emergency Disclaimer
โ ๏ธ THIS IS NOT AN EMERGENCY RESPONSE SYSTEM
- Not a substitute for 911: Check In Together is NOT a replacement for emergency services. In any actual emergency, always call 911 (US) or your local emergency number immediately.
- No guaranteed delivery: While we use reliable SMS infrastructure (Twilio), message delivery is not guaranteed. Network issues, phone settings, or carrier problems may delay or prevent message delivery.
- Relies on user action: The system depends on users completing check-ins. Inability to access the app (lost phone, dead battery, etc.) will trigger alerts even if no emergency exists.
- Any reply counts as a check-in: On calls and texts, any reply currently counts as checking in, and what you say is not passed on to your contacts. If you need help, call 911 or your contacts directly.
- Contact responsibility: Emergency contacts may not see messages immediately or may not be able to respond. Do not rely solely on this system for safety.
- Not medical monitoring: This is not a medical alert system and is not monitored by healthcare professionals.
4. User Responsibilities
As a Check In Together user, you agree to:
- Accurate information: Provide correct phone numbers for yourself and emergency contacts
- Keep contacts informed: Tell your emergency contacts they may receive alerts and ensure they understand what they mean
- Obtain consent: Only add emergency contacts who have agreed to be contacted
- Update information: Keep your contact list current and remove outdated contacts
- Complete check-ins: Use the service responsibly and complete check-ins to avoid false alarms
- Account security: There is no password: your account is the one the app created on your phone, so keep your phone secure
5. Emergency Contact Responsibilities
If you're listed as an emergency contact, you:
- Must opt in by replying YES to receive alerts
- Can opt out at any time by replying STOP
- Understand that alerts may be false alarms
- Are not obligated to respond or take action
- Should use your own judgment about how to respond
6. Prohibited Uses
You may NOT use Check In Together to:
- Harass, stalk, or abuse anyone
- Send messages to people without their consent
- Impersonate others
- Violate any laws or regulations
- Interfere with the service's operation
- Use automated systems to create accounts or send messages
7. Abuse Policy
We take abuse seriously. We will investigate and may suspend or terminate accounts that:
- Send excessive alerts (obvious misuse pattern)
- Add contacts without consent
- Use the service for harassment
- Violate these Terms of Service
Report abuse to: support@checkintogetherapp.com
8. Service Availability
We strive for high availability but cannot guarantee uninterrupted service. The service may be unavailable due to:
- Maintenance and updates
- Technical issues
- Third-party service outages (Twilio, hosting providers)
- Force majeure events
9. Limitation of Liability
TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY LAW:
- Check In Together is provided "AS IS" without warranties of any kind
- We are not liable for missed check-ins, undelivered messages, or emergency response delays
- We are not responsible for actions (or inaction) of emergency contacts
- Our total liability is limited to the amount you paid for the service (if any) in the past 12 months
10. Termination
You can stop using Check In Together at any time by deleting your account in the app. We may suspend or terminate accounts that violate these Terms. Upon termination:
- Your access to the service ends immediately, and all check-in texts, calls and alerts stop
- Your emergency contacts are not sent any message about it, so please tell them yourself that they will no longer be alerted
- Your data is deleted as described in our Privacy Policy (immediately when you delete your account in the app)
Uninstalling the app does not delete your account: check-in calls and texts continue, and your contacts can still be alerted when check-ins are missed, until you delete your account in the app (Settings → Delete Account) or ask us to.
11. Changes to Terms
We may update these Terms of Service. Changes will be posted on this page with an updated "Last Updated" date. Continued use after changes constitutes acceptance.
12. Governing Law
These Terms are governed by the laws of the United States and the state where the service operator is located. Any disputes will be resolved in the courts of that jurisdiction.
13. Contact for Legal Matters
For legal inquiries or Terms questions:
Email: support@checkintogetherapp.com
Service Operator: Check In Together LLC
Location: United States
Contact Us
๐ง General Support
For questions, technical issues, or general inquiries:
support@checkintogetherapp.com
Response time: 24-48 hours
๐ Privacy & Data Requests
For privacy concerns, data access, or deletion requests:
support@checkintogetherapp.com
Include "Privacy Request" in subject line
โ ๏ธ Report Abuse
To report abuse, harassment, or Terms violations:
support@checkintogetherapp.com
Include "Abuse Report" in subject line
๐ Service Information
Operated by: Check In Together LLC
Location: United States
Service Type: Check-ins with text alerts to emergency contacts
Quick Answers
How do I opt out of emergency alerts?
Reply STOP to any message. You'll be unsubscribed immediately.
Why did I receive an emergency alert?
Someone listed you as their emergency contact and missed their safety check-ins. Contact them to ensure they're okay.
How often will I receive messages?
Rarely. You'll only receive messages when the person who listed you misses a check-in, or in the other cases listed under SMS Consent above. This could be zero messages per month in normal circumstances.
Do you sell my information?
No. We never sell, rent, or share your information for marketing purposes.